Everybody knows today that homosexuality is not a choice. We have been created like this or it has been imposed upon us. But then, why is homosexuality considered as a crime in some countries and why has life created us homosexuals if it’s a sin according to some?

Hello Fellow Members,

Many people ask themselves if practising homosexuality is a sin. Homosexual practices is condemned by some people, spiritual organizations and countries.

Homosexuality is one of the most controversial subjects of all times. On one side God or nature have created us Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, Transgender, Queer, Intersex, Asexual, Pansexual (LGBTQIAP+) and on the other side they disallow us from expressing our sexuality.

I’m 48 years old and I have chosen to live a celibate life after living a gay lifestyle for many years. I have had the opportunity of discovering most aspects of what a homo gay life is like.

As I went through life I became aware from some articles that I’ve read on the internet that some of the holy scriptures condemn Some homosexual practices.

Based on what I have witnessed I have come to the conclusion that God is right when he says that we shouldn’t practise Some homosexual acts.

Personally, I’m not sure if practising homosexuality is a sin or not but Some of the sexual acts that homosexuals practise are immoral and filthy.

Since I’ve resigned on my gay sexuality, in the light of the sacred books teachings and my personal experience, I am one of the happiest person on earth because I am not living an unhealthy gay lifestyle. I have found inner peace.

It is possible to be LGBT and live in compliance with the rules that God has set in the sacred books.

We are LGBT and cannot change. We have the right to love as LGBT humans. But, we must refrain from engaging in unhealthy homosexual practices.

I do respect every LGBT and accept them as they are and will always give them my best support, for at the end of the day healthy LGBT love will prevail over sexual immorality. We advocate for LGBT Human Rights and healthy LGBT love but we do not encourage unhealthy homosexual lifestyles.

I need your co-operation to show to the world that homosexuality is about love and I invite you to join me in my mission to promote a healthy LGBT culture worldwide. In doing so you will be promoting healthy LGBT human rights and LGBT people are more likely to be accepted by society worldwide.

Please, leave a comment on this thread if you would like to share your point of view.

With lots of love,



    1. Mohammad Ali Mohammad Ali on July 26, 2020 at 10:06 am

      Thank you Perry Ramen for sharing your ideas with us. I have supported LGBT and I will always support it even if the whole world is against it.

    2. Nathan Felix Nathan Felix on July 26, 2020 at 9:11 pm

      Hi there,

      This is a really interesting perspective on homosexuality. Religion and homosexual have had a complicated relationship together, and for many people, they find it difficult to be both LGBTQ+ and religious. That being said, some people are able to fit both aspects of themselves into their lives comfortably.

      Some of the things I have learned in my Sociology courses so far is that it is important to let people live their lives the way they want to. What that means, is letting people who are gay and religious be celibate if that is their choice. There is nothing wrong with that if that is a person’s own personal choice. However, that must also be met with the same kind of respect and fairness. It is important to let people who want to engage in certain behaviors, live their lives, as long as everything is safe and consensual, and nobody is harmed.

      Your conclusion that “God is right when he says that we shouldn’t (practice) homosexuality” is ultimately your opinion. That is how you interpreted the Bible and other religious texts and pieces. That is not how every person views the same texts and pieces. Your opinion and beliefs are valid, please remember that. However, remember that many others may not share those same beliefs.

      To take a more Psychological perspective on your post, it is important to be mindful of one’s wording. The way you have described certain behaviors as “filthy” and “unhealthy” can make those who do engage in these behaviors and lifestyles feel bad about themselves. Already, being LGBTQ+ can come with many challenges, and having words such as “filthy” and “unhealthy” being used to describe them and their behaviors, it can really affect their mental health.

      On a more personal level, there are some things I am comfortable with, but there are also some things I am not comfortable with. But that does not give me the right to describe what other people do as something “immoral.”

      I have a legitimate question. Towards the end of your post, you say, “(w)e advocate for LGBT Human Rights and healthy LGBT love but we do not encourage unhealthy homosexual lifestyles.” What do you mean by “unhealthy homosexual lifestyles”? Do you refer to certain activities between same-sex individuals? If so, it’s their right to be doing such things, and even if this site is to promote happiness and health within the LGBTQ+ community, it should not be at the expense of those who may take offense to those comments.

      To end this on a more positive note, I will just say that I think it is great you are opening up about your thoughts and feeling regarding this topic. I feel as though it helps to have these conversations to get a better understanding of other people’s perspectives.

      All The Ways,

    3. Perry Ramen Perry Ramen on July 27, 2020 at 4:36 am

      Thank you for your reviews. I appreciate and thank you for the valuable feedback. RFGN is an open platform where everybody is free to voice out their opinions. Our aim is to learn from your feedback to improve the quality of our services and provide better information, education & support to our members. By unhealthy and immoral sexual lifestyle I mean LGBTs practising acts such as playing unsafe and transmitting HIV and other sexually transmissible diseases to other people, anal penetration, anal fisting, anal rimming, threesomes, gay orgies, playing in public toilets which are used by straight people & children also, cheating on their partners. Gay people practising anal sex find themselves fucking shit and end up having shit on their fingers and their sex; its filthy and disgusting and the smell is disgusting also. I believe that such behaviours demotes the opinion that society has about LGBT people and hinders LGBT acceptance. I do believe in LGBT Love and do understand that LGBT people have natural feelings and desires for love and sex, but I’m just trying to say that certain sexual practices, be them gay or straight, are not in line with moral values and should be talked about openly for educational purposes and to promote a change to healthy sexual practices.

    4. AAYUSHI SINGH AAYUSHI SINGH on August 2, 2020 at 3:02 pm

      Since this article tried to connect LGBT with religious scriptures, I would like to share 1 fact that is not all mythologies or religious scriptures are against LGBT. You can find several traces of presence and acceptance of LGBT during the ancient time, and by mythologies I genially mean about Indian mythologies.
      Talking about the other point which the author spoke about is the health issues, well upto certain limit he is right. But it doesn’t mean that everyone who is a part of it is suffering for the same thing. As far as precaution is being taken, it can be avoided. There are many living healthy and happy lives with their partner. Of course, there are many who are having issues. In a nutshell its basically about BEING INFORMED.

    5. Perry Ramen Perry Ramen on August 2, 2020 at 7:12 pm

      Homosexuality and religion is a big debate in the world and RFGN cannot ignore the subject. People are living in dilemma, hindrance and persecution and need help. We are not imposing our point of view on the subject but its an open discussion in which people are free to participate or not. The title of the article has a question mark ? in it meaning that the article is a question and the last line says “Please, leave a comment on this thread if you would like to share your point of view.”. The whole point of RFGN is to be a center for discussion and awareness around subjects like LGBT Support, LGBT Health, LGBT Human Rights, LGBT & Spirituality, LGBT Persecution, etc… Spirituality is part of life and the subject cannot be left out. I understand that some people are not comfortable with this subject and its totally fine. If there wasn’t a debate about whether homosexuality should be legalized or not in some countries and cultures and LGBT people were not facing any difficulties or persecution in some countries there would have been no point for RFGN and RFGN would not exist. Everybody has a word to say about the subject of homosexuality be it for or against it to share awareness on this global issue and find global solutions. There is only one solution to this issue “Its to promote LGBT Love” and reject immorality. By doing so people, nations and religions will understand that homosexuality is in fact about love and homosexuality will become accepted globally.

    6. Perry Ramen Perry Ramen on October 25, 2020 at 1:52 pm

      Bible > 1 Corinthians > Chapter 6 > Verse 10

      …Do you not know that the wicked will not inherit the kingdom of God? Do not be deceived: Neither the sexually immoral, nor idolaters, nor adulterers, nor men who submit to or perform homosexual acts, nor thieves, nor the greedy, nor drunkards, nor verbal abusers, nor swindlers, will inherit the kingdom of God. And that is what some of you were. But you were washed, you were sanctified, you were justified, in the name of the Lord Jesus Christ and by the Spirit of our God.…

    7. Classified Equal Rights Classified Equal Rights on October 25, 2020 at 2:38 pm

      Homosexuality is not a Sin, Not a Sickness
      For many centuries, the Christian Church’s attitude toward human sexuality was very negative: sex was for procreation, not for pleasure; women and slaves were considered property to be owned by males; and many expressions of heterosexuality, like homosexuality, were considered sinful. Such tradition often continues to influence churches today. Many churches teach that women should be subordinate to men, continue to permit forms of discrimination against peoples of color, and condemn homosexuals. They say that all homosexual acts are sinful, often referring to their interpretation of scripture.

      Other churches today are influenced by a century of psychoanalytic thought promoted through a powerful minority in the field of medicine. They see homosexuality as some kind of sickness. Although this view has now been soundly discredited by the medical profession, some churches and clergy continue to be influenced by the idea. They say that homosexuals are “imperfect” and in need of “healing.”

      The Good News is that, since 1968, when Metropolitan Community Church was founded, the emergence of a strong lesbian and gay community, and the conclusions of new scientific studies on homosexuality have forced the Christian Church to reexamine these issues. A growing number of biblical and theological scholars now recognize that Scripture does not condemn loving, responsible homosexual relationships. Therefore, gay men and lesbians should be accepted – just as they are-in Christian churches, and homosexual relationships should be celebrated and affirmed! ( Knowledge from Rev. Elder Don’t Eastman)


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